"Do you have any idea how much I have had to give up? Do you know how much I have had to sacrifice? There are so many things I have wanted to do that I haven't been able to because I have had to give that up for you."
Yikes. Do you hear the selfish tone in that?
That is what I heard
someone myself saying yesterday. And I realized, all of the things I have had to give up are a good thing. It's the way the Lord is using marriage to weed out all of that selfishness in me.
There's a lot more work to be done on this selfish heart of mine.